“Stop egging your sister on.”
It is a phrase that I’ve used as a parent, though I’ve never understood it. Is “egging” even the right word?
For the longest time, I thought that the real phrase was “agging,” which isn’t even a word, but I justified it because I thought it was somehow slang for “aggravating” or something like that. But I was woefully wrong.
The phrase really is to “egg on,” and it has nothing to do with a bird’s eggs or being on top of anything. The verb form of “egg” has the same etymological root as the word “edge.” Thus to “egg someone on” carries the same idea as “edging them onward” or leading them down a specific path. As we use it, it specifically refers to leading someone down the path of frustration.
So now I can say the phrase with confidence, even if I don’t want to say it because it means that my kids are aggravating each other. Oh well.